why not to use social media during divorceSocial media sites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat are an ever-increasing part of our daily lives. While these platforms actively encourage venting and oversharing, those are absolutely some of the last things you should do if you're considering, headed for, or in the middle of a New Jersey divorce. According to our Flemington, NJ Divorce Lawyers here's what how social media can affect your divorce. 

That's why it's imperative that you always stop and think twice before pressing post, send, or share.

How Social Media Can Affect Your Divorce

What you post on social media has the potential to affect wide-ranging aspects of your divorce case, from asset division and child support to child custody and alimony. Here's how:

  • Though asset division and child support agreements are based on specific financial information, posts about new purchases or lavish vacations may cause your soon-to-be ex to question the truthfulness of your asset and income declarations.
  • Photos of you enjoying an alcoholic beverage, dancing, or even just harmlessly goofing off can be misconstrued to suggest that you're irresponsible and unfit to parent.
  • Offhand gripes about your kids or parenting can be used in an attempt to paint you as a reluctant, resentful, or downright bad guardian.
  • Venting about your ex-spouse on social media may be considered “parental alienation,” which could lead to devastating changes to your child custody and parenting time agreements.

Protecting Yourself Online

Let's face it: What you say and do on social media can and will be used against you in your divorce case. Here's what you can do to protect yourself:

  • Set your social media accounts to private so only people who are your friends can see your posts.
  • Don't allow other people to tag you in photos.
  • Avoid posting about your divorce or child custody case.
  • Don't accept friend requests from anyone you don't know personally.
  • Ask friends and family to be careful what they post about you.

Remember: the internet is forever and nothing you delete is ever really gone, so be wise about what you post.

Consult an Experienced New Jersey Divorce Attorney

If you're headed for divorce and are concerned about how social media could affect your case or would like to learn more about your rights and options, contact Carl Taylor Law today to schedule an appointment for a private consultation.